These one night stands....
I,was 39 when I had my first one night stand. And one of those which i didn't even realise.
I was pretty positive about getting into a relationship after my divorce with my husband. I met this guy call Sagar (lets, say) in a pub. I was out with my friends. Sagar with his friends on the table close by. Sagar offered us a drink, we spoke a bit over the drink and drinks followed..
There were some sparks between us and I somewhere knew something would happen but I wasn't aware I would land up in bed with him that night itself. Sagar whispered into my ears," I am already in love, can we make love?" and I didn't even realise when i said yes!
The next day I woke up with a good feeling. We met up a couple of times. But then he had to leave for Germany. Anyway we both weren't interested in anything further. There was no contact between us, not that i bothered.
After a few years i bumped into him again at a coffee shop. It was a very pleasant surprise. We met again some more...got in touch again and yea..made love! I was longing to be in a relation with him now. But Sagar found it to be a blunder. I asked him," Can we get into a relation?" He said, " Listen Nikita, I need to be really driven to get into a relation, I need a girl who could nourish me all my life. I just don't feel like that about you." We had no conversation after that.
I felt like going and standing out at his door steps for long hours till he felt that i I actually could nourish him all his life!! Thank God I still had my senses right and knew that this could be called stalking in the language of law.
These one night stands......
I was pretty positive about getting into a relationship after my divorce with my husband. I met this guy call Sagar (lets, say) in a pub. I was out with my friends. Sagar with his friends on the table close by. Sagar offered us a drink, we spoke a bit over the drink and drinks followed..
There were some sparks between us and I somewhere knew something would happen but I wasn't aware I would land up in bed with him that night itself. Sagar whispered into my ears," I am already in love, can we make love?" and I didn't even realise when i said yes!
The next day I woke up with a good feeling. We met up a couple of times. But then he had to leave for Germany. Anyway we both weren't interested in anything further. There was no contact between us, not that i bothered.
After a few years i bumped into him again at a coffee shop. It was a very pleasant surprise. We met again some more...got in touch again and yea..made love! I was longing to be in a relation with him now. But Sagar found it to be a blunder. I asked him," Can we get into a relation?" He said, " Listen Nikita, I need to be really driven to get into a relation, I need a girl who could nourish me all my life. I just don't feel like that about you." We had no conversation after that.
I felt like going and standing out at his door steps for long hours till he felt that i I actually could nourish him all his life!! Thank God I still had my senses right and knew that this could be called stalking in the language of law.
These one night stands......
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